Relationships

I guess just like everyone's relationship, mine has fallen on hard times recently. This have been patched up as of last night but it still leaves me wondering what happened in the first place. SO many things come down to communication. But where did that go wrong? We use to talk for hours and let each other know how we're feeling. We seem to get caught up in the everyday life and it makes us bitter inside. Doing the routine things, get up go to work come home and do it all over again. This is the kind of life we never wanted, and I suppose we're making the best of it. We recently bought our first home together and all its malfunctions. We love it love it don't get me wrong! But it sometimes amazes me how hard you truly have to work to have a successful relationship. It is so easy to slip into the everyday thing....same thing..over and over. It makes me wonder sometimes, what's the point? These silly things that I do everyday, cleaning, laundry etc. don't make me happy. Granted they need to be done, but I wonder what the point is if they don't make you happy? We need something to make us happy in life so those things don't seem so bad, and so the routine life doesn't bring us down so much. I think more travel is in order!!! Going on adventures and seeing new places...ahhhh that's what life is for! Of course that's hard to do when money is so tight... Maybe we could go somewhere local that we've never been? Start there and slowly go further and further away until we decide to never come back. That sounds nice. Everyone should go on trips if they can! I think it's amazing how much it can lift your spirit to see something new and take in the smells you never have.
I wonder how many people have relationships that they aren't happy with. How many people are just unhappy in their day to day life and they have gotten use to it? It makes me sad to think about that. I'm not generally a depressing person, nor do I go around being negative and bringing people down. I suppose these are just things I need to get out of my system.